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| This is today. |
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| This is -3 years ago, -2+months before due date |
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| This is -9 weeks before due date, or Day 2 and counting. |
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| Her insistence on an early birth earned Raia lots of fun wires and tubes that we all wanted to play with ... and a lot of TLC at the NICU |
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| ...in addition to other sorts of attention. |
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| Pure and innocent as the wind driven snow. For now. |
A few months after her very early birth, Raia was declared by doctors "up to speed" with her chronological age rather than having to pro-rate her development according to her preemie age. She was 6 months and she had caught up to "normal" (as if there's such a thing as normal)* as a half-year-old baby in weight, height and milestones.
Today, on the celebration of her 3rd birthday, we can start to measure just how much she has surpassed "typical"* 3-year-olds in our family having perhaps the most extreme personality of the mix here.
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| Princess. Running back. |
Raia has far outpaced us, her brothers, in size, in independence and in attitude compared to us at her age, and sometimes even at our current ages.
Size. Without abandon she has tossed 3T to the wind, busting through her age size already while Lucas, 4 years 10 months, is just now retiring those.
Independence. While Lucas and I still willingly put out our arms and legs to allow you to dress me, Raia has been insisting on clothing herself for about a year now, after she picks out her own clothes, something Lucas and I never even knew was an option in life.
Self-potty trained before age 2. Enough said.
Self-potty trained before age 2. Enough said.
Attitude. In her short three years, Raia has pioneered such acts as the shoulder shrug which indicates, "no" without words. Emphatically. Defiantly.
While Lucas and I fling ourselves into the arms of strangers - pretty much anyone, anywhere, anytime - Raia holds back, analyzing the situation and giving the person the up-and-down several times. Unmoved by the display of affection and all the attention it gets us, she plays hard to get with aplomb.
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| The complete package. |
Stubbornness. I thought I had perfected the stop, drop and roll move of resistance when being asked to do something or go somewhere I didn't want to, but then Raia took it to a new level. She stops, drops and planks whipping her body into a rigid log and instantly doubling her weight so as to prevent physical intervention by an adult.
Tough Love. Or Aggression? Raia's running hugs (when she does hug) are made with the same force as a linebacker rushing a quarterback. Lawrence Taylor, move over.
She shows heightened mastery of "selective listening" and, like an undercover agent, pretends she hears or understands nothing said to her by teachers, friends and even parents. When it suits her. Why didn't we ever think of that?
And then there is the side glance, better known as the side glare - the smoldering look of death that speaks more than words: a warning, a threat.
Raia must be strong to survive. Third child, ruminator and mommy's girl, Raia is a crucial member of our threesome of unstoppable and wild mayhem. We love her so much with each new day. But we never could've imagined how the tiny preemie, lying innocently and demure in a tiny hospital incubator, would someday become the force that she is today.
Although we should've known that when she busted her way through to a two-month early birth. Silly us.
Happy Birthday, Raia!
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| Look out teenage years! |
The natural birthing is very good process for giving birth of your baby, in this process you can deliver your baby at any place where you want, and for doing this process you should be maintain yourself for this. In the Natural Birthing you do not have and medical equipment to make your birthing easier you should have to maintain yourself calm and relax at the time of birthing process.
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